26-year-old tries to make his younger girlfriend pay for his "bro night," she responds by dumping him: 'He tried to use [me] as an ATM in front of his friends. Good riddance.'

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    "Can you send me some money for drinks? I'm kinda low on cash"
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    UPDATE: WE OFFICIALLY JUST BROKE UP.... So, I (24F) have been dating my boyfriend (26M) for about a year. He's super into his weekly "bro nights" with his friends, which I totally support. I usually just chill at home, do my own thing, no problem.
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    This past Friday, we were out grabbing dinner when his friends called, asking him to come over for poker and drinks. He said sure and then, right in front of them, turned to me and went, "Babe, you got this, right?" Meaning the bill.
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    I was caught off guard but figured, whatever, I'll cover dinner. But then he added, "And can you send me some money for drinks? I'm kinda low on cash"
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    At this point, his friends were laughing and hyping him up like, "Yeah, take care of your man!" I felt super awkward but just said "Nope, I think you got it."
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    He got quiet, paid for his half, and left. Later, he texted saying I embarrassed him in front of his friends and that I made him look like he "doesn't wear the pants" in the relationship.
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    I told him I'm happy to treat him sometimes, but I don't like being put on the spot, especially when it's for him to go out without me.
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    Now he's sulking, and his friends are apparently joking about how he "lost his sponsor" AITAH for standing my ground?
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    joe-lefty500 19h ago . Your reaction was perfectly acceptable. Your bf is trying to show his friends how much of a doormat you are. You showed all of them you're not. NTA
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    . Fit_History_842 • 19h ago If he wants to "wear the pants" he can start by paying for dinner.
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    b... 19h ago Edited 12h ago . . It wasn't about putting you on the spot. It was about him showing off that he can order you around like you are inferior to him. If he thinks treating his girlfriend
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    like sh, and putting her down in front of others is a flex kindly consider getting a new boyfriend, yours is defective.
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    random_lady420 19h ago He is a joke...Run!!!
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    Due-Aioli-6641 · 19h ago Haha. If he "wears the pants" shouldn't he be responsible for funding everything? Aren't pants wearing people the ones who handle all the money?
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    NTA. Not sure what his game was, but good for you for sticking up for yourself.
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    Cybermagetx • 19h ago Nta. Anyone who does that on the spot to look better infront of their friends will be dropped by me. If youre that immature, youre not mature enough to date me.
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    Regular_Boot_3... 19h ago What is he, your sugar baby? No way. He can pay for his own entertainment. Don't encourage this scrounging/mooching behavior. NTA.
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    AsparagusOveral... • 19h ago If he can't pay for his own sh, he don't wear any pants cuz he's a broke loser.
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    Elladuskk ⚫ 10h ago NTA. He's a grown man, not a child. He tried to use u as an ATM in front of his friends. Good riddance.

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